The secret to this place, i think, is to find a group of people, or sometimes just that one person, who you feel completely comfortable with, and with whom you are eager and able to share everything from what you’re having for dinner to your deepest sexual desires.
i have great friends. But mostly, i have nicki. We’ve been through a lot together, in a number of relationship styles, and she has helped me to grow in my understanding of who i am (especially in developing and embracing my submissive side) and how i can be most happy. We are now engaged. *smiles*…She will be my hotwife.
i encourage everyone to use this place to have fun and explore your interests without worrying what others might think (as long as you're not hurting anyone). It's taken me time to let my hair down, as it were, but i've found that many of the doors that we think are closed to us remain closed simply because we choose not to open them. Open your doors. And, do as i have done, find someone who will help you to open those doors.
i am devoted to nicki, but we play with others, and i can sometimes play on my own. i'm always happy to talk (and flirt). If you’re interested in more, feel free to talk with me.
Please, have fun, and remember that we're all here to have fun.