 General Info
| I Am Here For: |
For a New Experience, To Explore My Sexuality, To Meet People, To Get the Party Started |
| Marital Status: |
In a Relationship |
| Children: |
Have children |
| Education: |
N/A |
| Religion: |
Spiritual, but not Religious |
| Smoke: |
No |
| Drink: |
Yes |
| Occupation: |
N/A |
| Body Type: |
Full Figured |
| Height: |
5' 6" |
| Ethnicity: |
White / Caucasian |
| Languages: |
English |
My Web Gifts
A gift from uname
Note:
Content:
Sent
12/12/2012
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DD_Petite_RB_56's Scoop
About me:
Hello, Glad you took the time to have a look at my profile :), a little about myself.. Firstly I am happily in the arms of my Daddy and Sir: Sir_Kinky_RB_56, We're also together in the real world - and a proud member of the RB & 56 family.
Secondly my screen name is DD_Petite_RB_56 pronounced as Deedee not double D.
And finally I have learned that I am poly, however, Anyone interested in pursuing me, either purely sexual or more MUST ask my Daddy/Sir (Sir_Kinky_RB_56) for permission FIRST! Not coming to me behind his back and trying to proposition anything before asking him, failure to do so will result in immediate dismissal. - I just want friends and if YOU want more, take the appropriate course of action. I can be quite quirky and cheeky at times, I'm a dominant-submissive which means I will only submit to whom is strong enough to dominate me, I'm not going to just submit to any tom, dick and harry just for the sake of it. I have allot of pride and I do respect myself and you might think I'm a fake or a switch but fact of the matter is I'm a strong independent, Intelligent woman that can also be challenging and pig-headed at times and I don't need a man or a woman to be happy especially if I'm mentally stronger then the one that claims to be a dominant. I have a good sense of humor that not everyone quite understands so if you're easily offended it might be best to stay clear of me, I wouldn't call myself jealous just protective of the people I care about and won't hesitate to defend them or myself I don't like drama so if you are a drama king or queen I don't want any of it I'm here to have fun and escape not to get a headache. I can be quite flirty at times especially if I'm in a really good mood, I do like the supernatural theories and aspects of this place and would be interested in learning more about it since fantasy and fairy tale have always colored me intrigued. I'm rather private with my real life and will only share details about it with a very rare and select few because the world is small it's just expensive to go around and if you don't like it you can bite me. I can be very loyal to the right person, I'm also very compassionate, loving, sincere, trustworthy, happy-go-lucky, carefree and can be fairly fiery at times. I have a big heart and like to help people if I have the knowledge to help. All in all I'm a good, friendly person and I'll either make good friends on here or major enemies but I look forward to meeting new friends and having new experiences here in RLC. :)
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Who I'd like to meet:
I'd like to meet almost anyone, I'm rather open minded but if you act like a dick/bitch I won't be afraid to tell you so. Anyone that has a good sense of humor and won't get offended quickly. People that like to talk because I can be quite the chatter box and I believe if people consider themselves friends they should talk or else they're just people on a list. I do what I call FL cleaning a few times each month so if you find yourself deleted don't take it personally it just means that we never/hardly ever spoke.
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A True Dominant
Hand in hand with responsibility, as the Dominant is charged with guiding and helping the submissive in their growth, comes patience. Patience in a Dominant is a requisite too, because there may be many times when a submissive may not reach expectations. This may not be due to any failing on the submissive's part, and so the Dominant must show patience, and a calming influence: an ability to help the sub, to achieve what they both want, in a structured and sensible way, and never to criticize when things don't go well. A good Dominant will be prepared to listen, question, and make their own choice. If they are the right type of person then it is likely that the conclusions they reach by their own processes will be the right ones anyway.
These basic characteristics: Self control, knowledge, and a questioning mind, along with the ability to listen, understand, and question, are the foundations on which a Dominant personality should be built. Next is the ability to accept responsibility. A Dominant should understand that in a D/s relationship, the submissive is going to place their faith in the Dom in many ways. It is inherent in a D/s relationship that the submissive needs to give up some level of control and responsibility to the Dominant. Acceptance of that control must sit comfortably with the Dominant. To have another hand over control of their life, (or at least parts of it) to you is an awesome feeling. It must be borne with great care, and never abused. So, a Dominant does not abuse the power they are given. They never take that power, they are given it out of love, trust, and respect, and the feeling that they can improve the quality of another's life.
Being single-minded in what they want is another Dominant trait (although not exclusively, I know many submissives too, who are very single-minded.). The ability to have a vision, and through whatever gets in the way, to be able to preserve that in their mind, and make progress towards that goal, irrespective of what it might be, is likely to be another characteristic seen in most Dominants. Through all these there also remains the fact, that someone who is able to accept the responsibility for another, make informed decisions about life altering (for some at least) processes, of having an ability to manage, and accept change, and alter the plan to suit prevailing circumstances. One's care for another must by definition take their hopes, fears, needs, and desires into account; these needs will change over time, and so, as they do, the original vision that one may have had for a relationship may well have to change. The inability to see that is not conducive to Dominance.
Above all else a Dominant cherishes his submissive, in the knowledge that the gift she gives him is the greatest of all.
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