![](/images/t2/sec-header-arrow-bk.gif) General Info
I Am Here For: |
To Explore My Sexuality |
Marital Status: |
Single |
Children: |
Eventually |
Education: |
College Graduate |
Religion: |
Christian |
Smoke: |
Yes |
Drink: |
No |
Occupation: |
RN |
Body Type: |
N/A |
Height: |
5' 0" |
Ethnicity: |
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Languages: |
English |
![](/images/t2/sec-header-arrow-bk.gif) My Web Gifts
A gift from uname
Note:
Content:
Sent
12/12/2012
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![](/images/t2/sec-header-arrow-bk.gif) Becca_L's Scoop
About me:
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****IMPORTANT PLEASE READ****
******IF THE FIRST THING SOMEONE SEES ON YOUR PROFILE IS A PENIS...KEEP MOVING ON. IF YA SEEN ONE PRICK YA SEEN THEM ALL!!!***
I DO NOT do skype or voice so please don't ask. I will only say no once after that you may get deleted and put on Ignore.
Do not ask to meet face to face. It is not going to happen.
I am a nurse in Real Life I came here a few years ago but then things got busy and I left. Well I am back because of the Pandemic.
I come here to try things that I would never do in real life. and to indulge in a few of my fantasies.
Who I'd like to meet:
I am not just a number for your Friends List. Do not attempt to add me if all you are looking for is who has the most friends. You will be deleted.
I DO NOT do skype or voice so please don't ask. I will only say no once after that you may get deleted.
Do not ask to meet face to face. It is not going to happen.
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![](/images/t2/sec-header-arrow-bk.gif) More About Becca_L
My Other Profile/Website Links:
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Interests:
I want to pass this on. I did not write it, but it is worthy of a moment of your time. We feel this in our bones:
E.R. / Critical Care Healthcare workers are a different kind of creature.
We condition ourselves to roll with the punches … no matter how brutal … you roll. Somebody's life depends on it.
Our eyes see the unfathomable ... sights that would keep a "normal" person awake at night ... but we roll.
We condition ourselves to not feel it ... not take life too seriously ... we know how fragile and brief it
is … we are reminded every time we swipe that time clock ... every time ... and we roll.
I picked a lady up off the floor this evening after she walked out of the room where her husband died. She dropped to her knees ... she wailed … she cried out for the father of her children ... and without batting an eye, I knelt beside her and helped her the best way I could ... death had won again.
We become numb ... our hearts don't feel things like the hearts who are protected from this type of consistent and repeated defeat ... we cope … and maybe too well.
Maybe we come off as cold and emotionally unavailable. Maybe we aren't approachable.
We come off a little bossy ... because we have to be good patient advocates … to be the person our patient needs.
Be patient with the ER/ICU nurse/RTs/EMS/PD/FD in your life. Your eyes have not seen what theirs have.
You haven't felt it ... you haven't battled death as much and as hard as they have.
You could never see their world through their eyes ... because if they love you … they wouldn't want you to … they will protect you from it.
Healthcare PTSD is at an all time high, but your family member would never expose you to that. Be patient and kind with your ER/CC nurse/RT ... you never know what battlefield they just walked off of.
With love,
A tired, drained, yet passionate healthcare worker.
My Favorite Websites:
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Music:
Pretty much anything except hip hop and rap
Movies:
Romance, comedies, Bio. Some action.
Books:
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