In RLC I have a totally different personality than I have in real life, which is something logical, because it is a game and it should not be forgotten.
As a good role-playing game, it allows me to play different roles depending on the person I'm playing with.
I can be a submissive gay by exploring the world of bdsm and domination in sex, being tied down and punished with a whip, or simply someone who is excited to be tied down without getting physical violence.
I can be a dominant who punishes a submissive to whom he likes, for which I am greatly helped by the experience I have gained in the role of submissive.
I can also enjoy much more: Conventional sex, hard, romantic, in public, in group, in private, passionate, etc...
It all depends on the role I'm playing, the role I play in each case with my partner at that time. If someone I like, I talk to him we find out about our tastes, we establish the respective roles and to play.
In short, I'm looking for excitement and excitement to have fun and so I'm versatile in every way but I enjoy being submissive/passive.
I love to excite my partner in sex, that in itself makes me very hot, so I focus on the pleasure of my sex partners, leaving my pleasure as my partner's responsibility.
I must also say that although submission excites me in sex (along with many other things) in the rest of the activities, I prefer confidence, humor and irony.