 General Info
| I Am Here For: |
For a New Experience, To Explore My Sexuality, To Meet People, swinging |
| Marital Status: |
Swinger |
| Children: |
N/A |
| Education: |
College Graduate |
| Religion: |
Catholic |
| Smoke: |
Yes |
| Drink: |
No |
| Occupation: |
Medical |
| Body Type: |
Slim / Slender |
| Height: |
5' 3" |
| Ethnicity: |
White / Caucasian |
| Languages: |
English |
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sweetswingersmd's Scoop
About me:
Hello!
Thank you for Visiting and welcum to our Redlight Social Centre sexual playground. We appreciate it very much that you took the time to stop by and check us out. My name is Daryl and my girlfriend and swinging partner on the site is Mendy and we are of course the SweetSwingersMD. Now, allow me to introduce our selves since I am the writer in our relationship. But first and foremost, the MD does not mean that we are doctors even though we do work in the medical field outside of swinging. Rather, the MD stands for the initial letters within our first name Daryl and Mendy. We thought it had a rather nice ring to it while signing up on a swingers pay site that we used to be a member at.
A Brief Note on How Mendy and I Became Swingers:
Mendy and I refer to ourselves as swingers who take pleasure in what many refer to as having an honest and open relationship. We love to play sexually with others provided both parties respect one another.
During our experiences at some of the clubs here in Florida as well as one in North Carolina, many other swingers would ask us if we are into full swap and the answer to that question is not as easy as one may think. I guess that what it comes down to as most swingers may agree on is the environment and situation in which you are in at that moment in time. In order to have a truly good swinging experience, both swinging couples or more must feel comfortable with each other. A pushy individual or couple will likely be going home without any swinging experience as opposed to the respectful swinging couple that may enjoy a whole night of sheer sexual pleasure and play.
So therefore, it is rather difficult to label us just full swap. It probably makes more sense to call us both full and soft swap same room only, depending on where the path and friendship with the other party takes us.
It was about a year and half ago when we decided to test the swinging lifestyle at a great place in North Carolina called Carolina Friends. It was a bit of a nerve racking first time experience as one never knows what to expect, but in the end, our experience sealed the deal in maintaining our swinging life style and eventually having many more experience to come.
So who is This Mendy and Daryl Anyway?
Ok, so now you probably want to know who we are.
We are a couple that aside from swinging are completely into each other on every level and now a days it is rather hard to find that. We as a couple respect each other immensely and value honesty more than any other variable that makes a relationship work. We are friends and we are lovers and the swinging lifestyle is a place we can go to outside of the relationship if we want to have some alternative sexual fun. And there is truly no better hobby or idea of fun than enjoying the company of others and delving into some sexual play.
Swinging for us is allowing ourselves pleasure outside of our relationship. It allows for more experiences that you could not normally do if it were just two people having sex. It's like having that extra hand around when you have an itch you just can't reach and there really is nothing more great than a few more hands in the mix.
However, swinging for us is like a massage. You get a massage from a masseuse and it feels good, but it doesn't mean that we go home with the masseuse. Why would we when we already have a partner that we really love? But in the end, that massage really did feel pretty damn good.
In other words, when Mendy and I are in the bedroom, we make love with the occasional wild fuck. (One has to include that occasional big bang too, just to mix it up a bit and display one's inner animal .) It is an intimacy between both of us that feels completely different from that of the swinging lifestyle. It is something you cannot experience when you swing and it is something I would never want to underestimate or take away either. Thus swinging with others and that intimate moment with your partner are two absolute separate entities.
In summary, swinging for Mendy and I in itself is like that favorite ride at a theme park, while intimate sex between Mendy and I is like that romantic boat ride in Italy.
Of course Mendy and I also believe that there has to be some connection between swinging friends as well. You are certainly not going to swing with people who you have nothing in common with, or with someone who is rude or even someone that is in swinging merely to get there rocks off in a matter of mere seconds. On one level, there certainly has to be genuine chemistry between the swingers involved. For example, the reason I consider my best friends “best friends: and others as maybe strangers or “ just friends” is because there is a chemistry between me and what I would call the “best” friend(s). There are commonalities as well as good differences within the friendship, but most of all there is a respect between one another that one cannot take away or get from certain other people you may come across in life.
Therefore in a nutshell, I feel that the parties involved in swinging must have some commonalities in the world of swinging and not all situations will be alike and that is why the situation and most importantly the couple will determine the path to ones swinging experience.
Remember that respect and kindness will get you very far in getting to possibly meet us and with such traits, you have already shown that you have a lot in common with Mendy and I and many other sweetswingers of this world.
I could go on and on about the swinging lifestyle as well as Mendy's or my beliefs, but I will just leave that to a great book I found online called Swinging for Beginners written by Kaye Bellemeade. So if you are pondering the lifestyle, curious about it or already involved in it, I highly suggest this great down to earth read.
Now about our more physical attributes:
Obviously when you enter our web site sweetswingersMD.com for the first time, you will see our pictures on the front page. But pictures don't always describe everything; so I will provide an honest and brief description of myself in my own words and Mendy will provide an honest and brief description of herself too.
SweetSwinger Daryl:
About five years ago I moved to the Florida area in search for the warmth and as long as it stays warm, I am happy and very sexual. Otherwise I just hibernate in the cold and build web sites like the one we have.
Originally I am from Ontario Canada, near the Niagara Falls area and as you know, it is downright cold there during the winter months. But I do miss it immensely.
While in Canada, I attended Brock University and graduated with an honors BA in Psychology. Currently I work in the medical profession and while I have worked in it for 11 years now I would like to eventually leave medicine and delve into my deeper love for the arts.
My deeper love of the arts that I enjoy are screenwriting and of course as you can see, web design. I guess you might include swinging into that as well. Is swinging an art? It may seem more like an abstract painting when legs and arms are entwined into each other visually during sexual play I suppose.
Daryl's Physical Attributes:
Myspace Zodiac Graphics
I have brown hair, green eyes and depending on the mood, I may or may not have a goatee. I am 37 years old and fortunately I still get asked for ID. When I am not asked for my ID, I am the least bit of a sweetswinger.
I am 6'4” with an average build. I can finally say average since doing weight watchers successfully and I haven't been more pleased with my health and with myself as I am now.
While I feel better than ever, I must say that I do have one downfall, which entails the luxuries of that occasional Canadian cigarette. Well maybe you could say I have two downfalls if you include coffee into the category of bad habits.
Drinking is not my forte, however sometimes I will have a weekend where I am in the mood to drink. I am drug free and herb free as well. I never did like the Ganja. It makes me tired.
I practice safe sex whenever I am into the swinging lifestyle and would not change that considering that I enjoy life very much and would like to live to a ripe old age.
And now I will turn you over to my better half Mendy.
SweetSwinger Mendy:
Let’s see hmmm. Describe myself. Well that is a hard thing to do on paper so here goes.
So what do I enjoy doing outside of swinging and spending time with Daryl? I enjoy traveling, reading intense books and most of all, I like to make people laugh. I consider myself to be very down to earth and friendly.
I never liked drinking or doing any illegal drugs. I feel that at times I am goofy enough and I think it is balanced just right without the use of drugs and alcohol. And of course I too practice safe sex.
I guess the best way to know who I really am is to find out through talking with me either in person some day or through email. You will see that after you do meet me, I really am pretty down to earth and friendly as long as you are too. I guess I am what you would call a SweetSwinger. Ha!
Mendy's Physical Attributes:
I am currently 36 years old. I was born in Maryland. I moved from North Carolina to Florida where I currently reside with of course my friend and partner Daryl. I have black hair, bright blue eyes and stand at a short but cute 5'2”. I am 115 lbs and my breast size is 34C. Daryl loves the boobs, but I as many woman in this world, would prefer if they were bigger.
Little Summery on Mendy and Daryl:
Ok I (Daryl) I am back and for the record, I love Mendy's boobs. But to each their own I guess!
Anyway, in summary, Mendy and I are a couple that are not only into each other but who are also into those around us who are very similar in terms of having respect for others, kindness towards others, a lack of self indulgence, no ego and who generally love to have fun in life whether it be sexual or nonsexual.
Mendy and I respect the beliefs of others because that is what makes who you are, but if your beliefs entail having hatred towards someone of a different sexual orientation, race, class, religion, or nationality then we will most certainly avoid developing or maintaining any kind of friendship with that person.
Mendy and I do not like racism, hatred towards those who choose same sex relationships, or any hatred towards what some may say fall out of societies normal standards and stereotypes and we stand very strong on that.
Similarly, judging others is not our preference either as we feel we are no better than anyone else in this world.
We hope to meet many people who share our lifestyle whether in person or here on myspace or SweeetSwingersMD. But to take that one step further, we hope to meet people that value and respect others as we do. In other words, we would like to meet other SweetSwingers like how we perceive ourselves to be.
Thank you
SweetSwingersMD
Mendy and Daryl
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