Some useful info i found on the forums, i copied it to my blog.. Guys: If you have a profile picture of your cock, take it off. I have yet to find a women who thinks it is sexy. Leave it in your pictures, but let the ladies search for it rather than have it right up front everytime they log on. I have even heard women say , if your prof. pic is a cock, they will ignore you. Guys: Do not general chat saying "I want sex, who wants to join?" You will get attacked verbally pretty quickly. Most ladies know that if you are here, you are looking for sex. Guys: Here is one I got ripped on. I was in the Passion Pit fully clothed. I said hi to a lady and after she responded and we talked for a sec, I went nude. Oops - she went ape and it took 20 min to calm her down and another 4 -5 days before we ended up getting together. Guys: Take the time to fill out your profile. Look at mine for ideas. Give the lady something to be interested in. After taking this suggestion from the lady I just mentioned, I went from 3 friends to 15 friends in 2 days. Both: Take a moment to read the profile before approaching. That will give you an idea who they are (RE: is the girl you are talking to really a guy? - happened more than once to me!) and if you are their type. Many of the girls are only online to be with other girls. I heard a quote that out of 20 girls, 4-5 are straight. The rest are bi or les. Both: Give each other a break. If you do not like what was did, tell them. Guys, if they tell you- do not take it personally, correct it. By doing some of these things, you will meet friends pretty quickly. If you want to send a FR to me, you are more than welcome. If you do so, please take a moment to rate my blog and pictures. I work hard to keep them up to date and would appreciate knowing what people like/ dislike. Enjoy... (Guys: No 2 is the one you have to take note of - it is true especially coming from a female - leave it in your pics where we can go and look)