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For a New Experience, To Explore My Sexuality, To Meet People |
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Single |
| Children: |
Undecided |
| Education: |
College Graduate |
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| Smoke: |
No |
| Drink: |
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| Occupation: |
slave |
| Body Type: |
Athletic |
| Height: |
5' 5" |
| Ethnicity: |
White / Caucasian |
| Languages: |
English |
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RULES AND GUIDELINES FOR SLAVES***...Acceptance: Acceptance of your self worth, your needs, desires and what you possess within your soul. Acceptance of your limitations and those of the Owner that you are serving. The ability to accept another human being for the person they are, including their shortcomings, and especially to accept your own shortcomings. Accepting what being a Slave is to the individual and not being ashamed or intimidated by the needs within, but happy in ones own mindset. ...................................................
Communication: The ability to talk and freely discuss things, is an integral part of any relationship. This is essential within the relationship between an Owner and a Slave. A Slave should have the skills to communicate needs, wants, desires, fears, thoughts, limits, or whatever else comes along. The ability to talk also calls into play the honesty and truthfulness of the Owner. Once communication is open, it should remain that way -- provided the Slave does not stop communicating honestly. To not communicate, is to endanger yourself and your Owner emotionally.....................................................
Compassion: The ability to see and at least attempt to understand the emotional aspects of your Owner's psyche. To understand and be aware of the multitude of issues within reality that can, and do, affect an Owner physically, emotionally, and mentally. To be able to apply that understanding to many situations that arise within daily life that may prevent you from serving your Owner to the best of your abilities, as well, as those situations that may prevent your Owner from dominating you to the best of their own abilities. Using compassion wisely to allow you to aide your Owner, supporting then during times of stress, shows that you are truly a well-rounded Slave. One who realizes that an Owner and a Slave are people too..............................................................
Courtesy: Courtesy is the ability to show proper manners -- pleases and thank you's. To address someone with a respectful tone of voice. You should always show courtesy to others around you. No one is exempted from this, Owner or Slave. Your rank is never an excuse for a lack of courtesy.......................................................
Grace: Elegance in the manner a Slave presents themself is an important and desirable personality trait. The way a Slave carries themself, displays their subservience, no matter how graphic, should still flow with style and grace. A Slave's commitment to their role should be displayed with pride and without hesitance. The Slave should be comfortable displaying their rank and should be able to look into themself for reinforcement......................................................
Submission: This is the most important trait in a Slave. It is the inherent natual ability to accept direction as part of a team. To accept being directed in a respectful, intelligent and humble manner. The strength of character which allows you to relinquish the control necessary in a power exchange relationship. The ability to surrender yourself in the interest of a larger picture........................................................
Honesty: Honesty is the ability to speak up, to be open and truthful about what you say. A Slave doesn't hide their emotions, fears, limits, fantasies, ideas, thoughts, etc. A Slave doesn't tell their Owner what they think the Owner wants to hear. Honesty is the basis of trust, without it there is no trust. And, without trust there is no true relationship. A successful Slave is an honest one, one who does not lie or attempt to deceive. One who is truthful when they speak. Most importantly, a Slave is honest about their level of experience -- to lie is to endanger their own life.............................................................
Humility: Humility is the ability to see yourself as fallible. To see yourself as a person, not just a Slave. To see that sometimes in reality your needs must be set aside for the better of the relationship. A successful Slave knows they will make mistakes, that they are not perfect. A successful Slave is always open to learning new things, gaining new experiences, sharing their wants and desires with their Owner............................................................
Intelligence: Intelligence is the ability to learn the proper way of playing with the "toys" inherent in the "lifestyle". The willingness and ability to research and learn about BDSM itself. The ability to take the time to learn their partner outside the roles of domination and submission, to learn of them as the person that they are, their likes and dislikes. The ability to teach your Owner what pleases you and therefore, what will help to increase your bond.............................................................
Loyalty: This is a very important trait in a successful Slave. It is the ability to uphold your personal honor and remain true to any agreement(s) between you and your Owner...........................................................
Patience: A successful Slave has patience. The ability to wait for things. To allow their Owner to demonstrate the subtleties of how to please Them. Learning that often the journey is more important than the destination.....................................................
Pride: Pride is the ability to know your capacities, and realize that you are not only a good person, but a good Slave. Pride is the ability to recognize your own strengths. This does not mean you should be closed minded to new ideas, nor does it mean you should be unaware of your faults, or weaknesses, or keep an inflated ego. Pride in your submission is a beautiful thing. Arrogance, or false pride, can be deadly. False pride usually masks insecurities which can be life threatening......................................................
Respect: A successful Slave will show respect at all times, until such time as the Owner proves They are unworthy of such respect. A disrespectful Slave does not earn the respect of Their Owner or of the Slaves around Then. By giving respect to others, you earn it for yourself.......................................................
Self-Respect: A successful Slave values themselves, and respects Their own limits. A solid sense of self-worth is a necessity for a successful Slave. Willingness to share your needs and desires is key to establishing a succesful rapport between a Slave and their Owner..........................................................
Service: A successful Slave serves thier Owner by sharing and celebrating common goals. As a Slave you are there to help your Owner learn and fulfill their potential. Performing acts of obedience and submitting to your Owner's wishes should be a method of letting your Owner explore themselves and their own internal power........................................................
******Guidelines*******...............................................
Be Patient: Every slave / Owner is different. You must take the time to explore each other. To learn each other's strengths and weaknesses..........................................................
Be Humble: You maybe God's gift to the world, but no one needs to hear it or wants to hear it. You will have ample opportunities to show how good you are -- and plenty of opportunities to make a fool of yourself. No matter what you claim, the "real you" will show through in a BDSM scene..........................................................
Be Open: You can always learn something new regardless of how many times you may have repeated the same scene or task. Each time presents new opportunities to see things from a different perspective. Make a point of opening yourself completely and make a connection with your Owner on a higher level. You should try to function with one spirit..........................................................
Communicate: You are responsible for finding out basic, essential information about the people you play with, such as experience, limits, likes and dislikes, health information, etc. Engaging in BDSM without this knowledge is like playing Russian Roulette. Talk about your head-space and your view of BDSM with your Owner, so that any uncertainties can be dealt with before a scene starts. Clearly spell out roles, rules, limits, and conditions. Do not take for granted that your Owner instinctively knows the ground rules..........................................................
Be Honest: If you lack experience in an area that your Owner would like experiment with, be honest about it. Your Owner has the right to know that! Be honest with yourself and them. Let Them know your fears and concerns about a certain scene before you engage in it. There is no shame in admitting a lack of knowledge. Safety should always be the first concern, taking priority over how "hot" a particular scene is..............................................................
Be Realistic: Never expect that a scene will completely fulfill and be able to meet all your expectations. Every experience is to to taken for what it was. You should take all aspects of the scene with you when it is finished and determine what you can learn from it. It is very important to make the break between what happened in the scene and what is real. The roles you and your Owner and any other partners took on exist only within the framework of the scene..........................................................
Be Healthy: BDSM, like any strenuous activity, requires that its participants - both active/dominant and passive/submissive - be in top physical and emotional health. The amount you sleep, your eating habits, your alcohol and drug intake, and everyday stress affects your response and endurance during a scene. Don't attempt to do BDSM when your physical or emotional energy is low. As a Slave, you have a responsibility to be in control of yourself and inform your Owner of any problems that you may be experiencing. An attitude of "drugs and alcohol don't affect me that much ... I can do it anyway" violates your Owners's trust in you and can be dangerous to both of you. If you don't want to accept the responsibilities, you shouldn't be playing.
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