 General Info
| I Am Here For: |
For a New Experience, To Explore My Sexuality |
| Marital Status: |
In a Relationship |
| Children: |
Eventually |
| Education: |
Some College |
| Religion: |
N/A |
| Smoke: |
N/A |
| Drink: |
N/A |
| Occupation: |
Dancer/Model |
| Body Type: |
Athletic |
| Height: |
5' 3" |
| Ethnicity: |
N/A |
| Languages: |
English |
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12/12/2012
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About me:
Adress me as Mistress JAMES
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Duties of a Dominant
It is the duty of a Dominant to know and understand what the wants and needs of a submissive are. Failure to do so may harm the submissive emotionally and mentally.
It is the duty of a Dominant to control his/her emotions. To punish a submissive in anger or to lash out to anyone is abusive.
It is the duty of a Dominant to remember that submission is a gift. To misuse this gift is abusive. When the submissive is not free to take back the gift it is no longer a gift.
It is the duty of a Dominant to watch over and protect all submissive’s. This does not mean to protect them from finding some other Dominant and to keep them for oneself.
It is the duty of a Dominant to take only a submissive that will match him/her. A submissive that is not into whips should not belong to a Dominant that loves to whip submissive’s.
It is the Duty of a Dominant to take only the amount of submissive’s the Dom/Domme can properly handle, control, love, comfort and care for. Do not keep a submissive hanging, giving false hopes. Free and release the submissive so the submissive can get along with finding the right Dominant.
It is the duty of a Dominant to watch and monitor the scene carefully and to ensure the submissive is not being harmed either physically or emotionally. At any time the slightest thing can go wrong and the scene is ruined for the submissive and pleasure becomes actual pain.
It is the duty of a Dominant after a scene to ensure the submissive is emotionally stable. During a scene the submissive is filled with hormones. Afterwards the body reduces them and may cause severe depression to the extent of being suicidal. The submissive must be made to understand the depression and or emotional release is normal and expected. Normal emotions will return in hours to a day. Anything longer is a sign of emotional instability in the submissive and must be corrected before doing another scene. (A Dominant can also experience this depression after a high from the scene.) Each reacts differently some stay high for weeks and when they come down seek the scene again to regain the high. This also can lead to problems such as longer, more intense and dangerous scenes, with unknown Dominants.
Responsibilities of a Dom/Domme
It is the responsibility of a Dominant to insure an unowned submissive is guided to a Dominant that is suited to the submissive’s wants, needs and desires.
It is the responsibility of a Dominant to insure the submissive knows what being abusive is. To insure this is to insure the submissive knows when to call it quits.
It is the responsibility of a Dominant to ensure the submissive knows what the submissive’s rights are.
It is the responsibility of a Dominant to teach the submissive information about the Lifestyle. The best method is to teach the submissive how to acquire this information and where he/she can get it. An ignorant submissive can be an embarrassment to a Dominant.
It is the responsibility of a Dominant to insure the submissive grows and develops under the Dominant’s ownership, in both the lifestyle and the public life (i.e., job and family). Being submissive only means being a “doormat” when the submissive has made it clear that is what the submissive is looking for.
Dishonorable Acts
For a Dominant to allow a submissive to be actually harmed in ANY way is dishonorable.
For a Dominant to allow a submissive’s rights to be violated is dishonorable.
For a Dominant to play with and discard a submissive just for amusement is dishonorable (exception is a submissive that has declared this is the treatment they need).
Unless the submissive has declared them selves to be unowned, another Dominant’s interference in a relationship is dishonorable.
To chase after or scene with Another’s submissive without the other Dominant’s permission and full knowledge is dishonorable.
No Dominant can be expected to live up to the above 100% of the time, others will respect him/her for trying and the harder she/he tries the more respect all will have for the Dominant and his/hers.
Submissive's rights
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT.
Not only do you have this right, you have the right to demand it. Being submissive does not make you a doormat or less of a person than anyone else. The word "submissive" describes your nature and in no way diminishes you as a human being. You have the right to respect yourself as well.
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE PROUD OF WHAT YOU ARE.
Being a submissive is nothing that should ever bring you shame or feelings of reproach. Your submissive nature is a gift and should always be a source of pride and happiness.
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO FEEL SAFE.
Being a submissive should not make you feel afraid, insecure or threatened. Submission is not about living on the edge or flirting with fear. In any situation you should feel safe or there can never be true surrender.
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO YOUR EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS.
Your emotions and feelings come from you and they are just as valid as anyone else's. You have a right to them. Those feelings, whether positive or negative, make you who you are and suppressing them will only bring unhappiness later.
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO EXPRESS YOUR NEGATIVE FEELINGS.
Being submissive does not make you an object that no longer has negative thoughts or concerns. Your concerns are real and you have every right to express them. If something doesn't feel right, bothers you, makes you feel bad or you just plain don't like something, say so. Failing to express your negative feelings could give the mistaken impression that you are pleased or satisfied with something that is not pleasurable or agreeable.
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY NO.
Being submissive does not take away your right to have dislikes or negative feelings about things. If something is happening or about to happen that you feel strongly opposed to, it's your duty to speak up. Remember, failing to communicate the word NO is the same as saying YES.
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO EXPECT HAPPINESS IN LIFE.
Being submissive is not tantamount to being miserable, suffering or a life of despair. Your submission should bring you joy, peace and fulfillment. If it doesn't, then something is wrong.
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO HAVE INPUT IN A RELATIONSHIP.
You are an active partner in any relationship you enter and have every right to contribute to it. You are submissive, not passive. A relationship that doesn't include your needs, thoughts, hopes and desires is not one you should be in to begin with. This applies to friendships, partnerships and D/s relationships.
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BELONG.
Being submissive greatly involves the feeling of belonging. Many submissive’s have expressed that it was in discovering their submissive nature that they felt as through they "belonged" for the first time in their lives. You belong to the lifestyle and will eventually belong to the One. It's in that relationship you should find the final fulfillment of "belonging" at last.
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE LOVED AND TO LOVE.
Anyone who tells you that love doesn't fit into a D/s relationship has never experienced the fulfillment of all it truly can be. submissive’s are by nature loving and needing of love and have every right to expect this to be a part of their lives. It takes love to bring your submission into full bloom, so don't settle for less.
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE HEALTHY.
Health involves your physical, mental and emotional well-being. Any relationship, D/s or otherwise, that causes you to suffer physically, mentally or emotionally, beyond your limits, is abuse. There is no place for abusive behavior in a D/s relationship and it's up to you to make sure those lines are not crossed. Being a submissive does not give anyone the right to harm or injure you in any way. The D/s community will stand behind you if you should encounter such a situation but you are the one who has to make them aware before they can help.
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO PRACTICE SAFE SEX.
Not only is this a right, it's a duty to yourself and others you may come into contact with at a later date. Sexually transmitted diseases have reached epidemic proportions and must be a concern to any sexually active person. Safe Sex is something you have the right to insist upon and protecting yourself should never be discouraged by anyone who really has your best interests at heart.
The 10 Differences Between a slave & sub....
1. A sub has the desire to submit but, A slave has the desire to sacrifice.
2. A sub enters submission in her life but, A slave has the desire to make slavery identical to her life.
3. A sub expects rewards for what she offers to her Master but, A slave doesn’t expect rewards.
4. A sub has expectations but, A slave has no expectations.
5. A sub is fulfilled when her fantasies come true but, A slave is fulfilled when her Master is satisfied.
6. A sub is willing to do things but awaits to take pleasure but, A slave is willing to do things without thinking of herself.
7. A sub feels that she has the margin to ask things from her Master but, A slave feels that she has no right to ask things.
8. A sub keeps having the need to take sexual pleasure but, A slave absolutely forgets the sexual pleasure for herself and she only focuses on her Master’s sexual satisfaction.
9. A sub doesn’t necessarily get a certification that allows her to be a slave but, A slave automatically becomes the personification of devotion and selflessness.
10.A sub’s world includes among others her Master but, A slave’s world IS her Master
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THE TEN Commandments OF THE SUBMISSIVE/SLAVE:
1 - By falsehood or omission of the truth:
In no case the subject must hide or distort the truth to her Mistress. She must provide spontaneously her concerns whatsoever that they are. She must express her fears and doubts. If a feeling of jealousy arises, it must be expressed to Mistress.
2 - Your free time, you devote to Mistress:
The subject will be held constantly available to the Mistress. She must not hide in RLC by using “offline” at any time. Any time subject will be ready to satisfy his desires and to obey his orders.
3 – Mistress’s decisions:
The subject having confidence in her Mistress and submitted her power, relies therefore fully to him and his judgment. In the case of a misunderstanding of intent to her Mistress, the subject will accept to submit to its requirements, but will mention her misunderstanding.
4 - Mistress’s pleasure and well being:
The subject constantly ensures the well-being of her Mistress. It will go to the front of her desires. The subject will increase the pleasure of the Mistress before her own and will ensure that her own pleasure does not create an obstacle to that of the Mistress’s pleasure.
5 - A respectful attitude:
The subject will show a respectful attitude to Mistress. So the subject’s words will be wisely chosen, without aggression or any sign of impatience or nervousness. The subject will respond and address respectfully using “Yes Mistress”
6. Beautiful, Trim and beyond reproach:
The subject will ensure she wears sexy outfits and changes often as well as wear Mistress’s collar, tattoo and skin. The subject will proudly stay close to Mistress’s side when walking with him, always behind him to his side. Kneel when she sees him first thing, then give him a hug. In the absence of the master the subject will wear plain outfits and avoid provoking the gaze of other men. The subject will at all times maintain impeccable hygiene and ensure in particular the cleanliness of her holes.
7 - Your body is owned by Mistress:
In the presence of master, the subject must at all times give him easy access to breasts, vagina and ass. No panties should be worn while in the presence of Mistress.
8 - Your fault, punishment:
For each offence to one of the rules given by master, a punishment shall be imposed upon the subject. The importance of the punishment will depend on the severity of fault. If the fault is admitted by the subject first before it was found by the master punishment is less.
In all cases any fault will be recorded in a log of errors and make adjustments necessary to the education of the subject.
9 - The punishment with gratitude:
Punishment will be experienced as of extreme marks of attention on the part of the master to advance the subject. As a result of which the subject is require to thank the master for this attention giving him all marks of humility and affection.
10 - With anyone, the same behavior:
The subject must constantly have respectful attitude with the other masters as to not tarnish the collar she wears. If another master shows misconduct the subject should remind him politely but firmly that she is the exclusive property of her master and that any misconduct against him is an insult to his master.
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Slaves Rules and Codes of Conduct
§ 01 A Slave must be honest from the Moment he/she begins communicating with a Domme. Never lie about Relationships, Experience Level or anything else.
§ 02 A Slave will seek to understand what he/she wants and needs and to know the Difference between the two.
§ 03 A Slave needs to realize some Fantasies will never be more than just that. Also that some of his/her Fetishes may not strike a responsive Chord within her.
§ 04 A Slave has a Duty to act as an intelligent Human being.
§ 05 A Slave repays a Domme's Attention with Respect, Humility and Obedience. This is inherent in the Nature of the Relationship.
§ 06 A Slave always communicates his/her Feelings as clearly as possible.
§ 07 If the Slave feels that her needs aren’t being met, he/she will confess that respectfully without seeming to make demands.
§ 08 A Slave will watch to see if His/her Domme is tired or not feeling well and focus on her comfort, not on having a Session.
§ 09 A Slave should never think of a Domme as a Torture and Humiliation Machine because that's Objectifying her.
§ 10 A Slave will remember that D/s is a Relationship between People. He/she will strive to never forget that the Domme is a Human being. That regardless of the Power Relationship, thoughtless Behaviour on her Part can inflict emotional hurt on the other Person.
§ 11 Always address Mistress as Mistress, never Miss. Address all other Dom's as Miss or Ma'am, or Sir for Males, Goddess, Queens, King, Duchess, Baroness, Baron, Lord etc.
§ 12 You will report to me when you are Online. If not coming to me, you will pm me to greet me and you also will pm me asking Permission before porting to me.
§ 13 You are never allowed to submit to another dominant without first getting my Permission.
§ 14 If there is a Disagreement with a dominant please don't take it upon yourself to straighten it out. Please see me and i will remediate straightening the Situation out as it were!
§ 15 We will not tolerate Drama nor Fighting. Please settle all Disputes quietly among one another!
§ 16 There will be no Fading nor Shading out without your Mistresses Permission.
§ 17 You will always kneel when greeting and leaving your Mistress and will never leave, unless booted, without your Mistress's Permission!
§ 18 You will always start a Conversation on Local and get Permission from your Mistress before accepting a pm.
§ 19 Always carry yourself with Respect and Pride. For whatever you do, reflects me.
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