 General Info
| I Am Here For: |
To Meet People, To have fun! |
| Marital Status: |
N/A |
| Children: |
Have children |
| Education: |
Post Grad |
| Religion: |
Spiritual, but not Religious |
| Smoke: |
No |
| Drink: |
Yes |
| Occupation: |
Corporate Finance |
| Body Type: |
Average |
| Height: |
5' 6" |
| Ethnicity: |
White / Caucasian |
| Languages: |
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My Web Gifts
A gift from uname
Note:
Content:
Sent
12/12/2012
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_BlackVelvet_'s Scoop
About me:
“…curious way that my idealism has been mixed with my fatalism, so that I can possess the soul of a dreamer and that of a cynic at the same time…”
~ Anaïs Nin ~
I am a submissive woman
That is my core ... my essense. It has been hard fought ... it has caused me the greatest joy and worst pain of anything in my life. Yet, I know now that it is who and what I am meant to be ... and I am no longer complete if that part of my self is not nurtured and fed. Every day I strive to become more ... more beautiful, inside and out ... with knowledge, understanding, grace and dignity ... more loving ... and more submissive.
As I return to my Self
Finding the strength and beauty that is me
Holding onto the submission that is mine
I see, finally, the true beauty and value
... of the gift I have to offer ...
"And the day came
when the risk it took to remain tightly closed in a bud
was more painful than the risk it took to bloom
I am no bird; and no net ensnares me;
I am a free human being with an independent will…
Yet within my heart, mind and soul there exists a burning need.
Only when HIS arms ensnare me
and my independent will ... Can joyously bend to HIS will
shall I find the peace of who I am.
They who dream by day are cognizant of many things
which escape those who dream only by night.
~ Edgar Allan Poe ~
I believe in strong, beautiful, honorable women, who know how to love deep and from the soul...
And I believe in my core that it takes a very strong man to love a strong woman... to be secure enough in himself to support her in her success... to be sure enough in himself to guide her on her path... and to be strong enough in himself to allow her to feel safe and secure in yielding to him.
Who I'd like to meet:
My mother... she died of breast cancer 13 years ago at the young age of 50. I would love to know her as her older self and have her know the woman I've become. But I feel her spirit in me and I trust that she watches over me and *smiles* as she sees me change and grow.
I love to either walk or crew the 60 mile breast cancer walks each year... I do so in memory of my mother, to support those who have been affected by breast cancer in their lives, either themselves or with a loved one, and to soak in all that wonderful, positive female energy.
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More About _BlackVelvet_
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Interests:
MY BOYS! Guiding my sons as they grow into wonderful, strong young men has been my driving force. FOOTBALL! Mostly high school and college (Pac-10)... I love to watch them while they're still excited about the sport *grins* Pro teams... CA all the way, baby... Raiders and Chargers (in that order).
My Favorite Websites:
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Music:
Any music that touches my soul... from classical to punk... with a tendancy to listen more to classic or alternative rock. There are certain songs or albums that I could listen to over and over for hours on end, depending on my mood.
Sometimes good friends just know what you need:
Movies:
Love action and horror flicks (I am a TOTAL adrenaline junky!) as well as comedy and an occasional chick flick (as long as it is with my girlfriends). The ones I will watch over and over? The Secretary (if you haven't seen it, GET IT), any of the Die Hard movies, Adam Sandler, Stepmom and The Banger Sisters (with my girlfriends and a HUGE box of kleenex) and, because of my mom... Gone With the Wind and The African Queen
Books:
I enjoy mysteries and suspense novels as well as fantasy and erotica. A lot of Dean Koontz, Anne Rice, A. N. Roquelaure, Stephen King, Michael Connelly, Patricia Cornwell, etc., etc.
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