 General Info
| I Am Here For: |
For a New Experience, To Explore My Sexuality, To Meet People, girls only |
| Marital Status: |
Divorced |
| Children: |
I don't want children |
| Education: |
College Graduate |
| Religion: |
Atheist |
| Smoke: |
Yes |
| Drink: |
Yes |
| Occupation: |
unemployed out on disability |
| Body Type: |
Slim / Slender |
| Height: |
5' 6" |
| Ethnicity: |
White / Caucasian |
| Languages: |
English |
My Web Gifts
A gift from uname
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12/12/2012
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VJ_SusieSunshine's Scoop
About me:
I joined Utherverse in 2010 after meeting Steph and she showed me how we could stay in touch and more thru Utherverse. When I first met Steph she was single. She was still in college and one night she told me she had met “the one”. She had met Dasha. Dasha was a freshman in the same college. This was Dasha first time away from home and she was this scared, naive little girl. Steph and her immediately hit it off. Each night I got to hear all about it. They have been happily married now for 9 years. Stephs parents and family immediately loved Dasha and made her feel a part of their family. Happy ending do happen. I am so proud and honored I was able to watch their relationship grow and see a scared little girl become the accomplish mature woman she is today. Thank you Steph and Dasha************
Then on February 7th 2012 my life forever took an unexpected turn. I had an automobile accident. I braked and the front end of my car went down and I skidded into another car I was only going 25 miles an hour. But when I hit the other car I went up hitting my head on the roof of my car. Not knowing it at the time I had crimped my spine in 2 places. I slumped over in my car not able to move. I didnt know it at the time but I was paralized. I woke up in the hospital the next day and 3 doctors had told me what happened to me and that they were suggesting an experimental surgery. Since that was my only chance I agreed.*********
On February 12th I had the surgery and I was told it lasted 15 hours. They went into my spinal column and cleaned out the broken bits of bone and put a clamp around each crimped part. They also fused my C3 thru my C5. After the surgery I was told it would be a few days before I noticed anything. Well 2 weeks went by and I still couldnt move. 2 of the Neurologists that worked on me said I need to be moved to a nursing home as I would never be able to take care of myself. I fired them both on the spot. The 3rd neurologist Dr Kumar asked me why I did that. I told him they were wrong I would walk out of there one day. ************
Then what Dr Kumar calls a miracle one morning my nose itched and I reached up and scratched it. I could move my left arm and both my feet. So he moved me to Tampa Generals Rehab unit. Over the next 6 months I worked the hardest I have ever worked and I was able to walk outta there using a walker. But I did it. I have been receiving physical therapy off and on since. **************
I also was diagnosed with an Abdominal Aorta Aneurism which I had repaired in 2016. So I have several stents in me from that surgery. During that surgery and after I had a bad reaction to the anesthesia and I couldnt get outta bed or walk so they sent me down to the same rehab I had been in before. They told me it would be 3 months to rehab and I told the Head Nurse nope I have to be home on May 22 for my birthday and I will be there in 13 days. She said I like you enthusiasm but itll be longer.*********
When I got down the the rehab unit there was Janey same girl that helped me before but now she ran the rehab unit. I told her they told me id be here 3 months and i told her I will be home on may 22. She told the other nurse Id listen to her she got out of here 3 months earlier last time she was here. ****************
So I turned my rehabbing in to a game. and in it doing that I helped everyone around me all but 1 person got into playing the win game. Each rehab session if you do 1 more step, hop, reach, anything at least once more thats a WIN. And have everyone around you ask about the win and celebrate each win. Everyone was having so much fun especially when we all were in the larger room together at same time. We did that once a day and everyone cheering everryone else on was amazing to watch that organically happen.************
When I lived closer to the hospital I would go there 2 days a month to talk to people and try to motivate them. Anyways I was home on May 22nd in time to do my Outcasts Anniversary show. *********
Since then my Cardiologist found one of my arteries was 65% blocked so another stent was put in me and a year later I had 2 more stents put in. I told everyone at the time I will be home the next day. You can bank on it. . Im feeling better everyday and Im walking a lot more now days *******
Ok now back to Steph and Dasha. The night of my accident I was suppose to meet them in my zaby but I never showed up. 2 months later some friends in real brought my computer to the hospital and logged on for me and there sitting in my zaby was Steph and Dasha. Steph knew something had happened to me and knew Id be back. As soon as I saw them there I started crying. I had my friends type what I was saying as I couldn't move my hands and arms yet. **********
Well that gave me even more of a reason to try harder and harder to get better and move again. I had to learn to walk again, dress myself again and bathe myself again. Everything we all take for granted. I dont take anything for granted anymore. Each day I can move around and do everything is a blessing and I dont forget that. Im sure some of you all have heard me say you all in here especially Steph and Dasha have helped me more than you know and thats cause your friendship, caring, and believing in me helped me through not only what you read above but also my husband left me while I was in the hopsital for a younger girl. He didnt even bother to come see me or even call me. ************* Just saying thank you isnt enough but thats all I can do for now. So I say thank you. ******************
I had been living a lie anyways. I had gotten married to a nice man but Ive always been attracted to women. I went through the motions just to appease my family and friends. I decided if I was able to get out of the hospital and take care of myself I was gonna be true to myself. So its at that moment I came out of the closet so to speak. My mother has totally disowned me and has cut me out of her will and stopped any money my daddy wanted me to have after he died. He and I did speak toward the end of his life and he told me how proud he was of me and was sorry about mom. That was worth more to me than any amount of money. Also lost some friends in real because of this. So the only family I have now are Steph, Dasha and all of the Sunshine's. And some of my good friends in RLC. We created the Sunshines to be the alternative to the families you see in RLC. theres no Master, Mistress, King, Queen, slaves or Doms in the Sunshines. If thats what our looking for thats not us. Everyone is equal here,
just a small note: as crazy as this may sound I am the happiest I have ever been.
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